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    Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 8:33pm
As of Saturday, after 8 years the DW and I have split.  Now I don't know if I will be able to keep the 5er or not.  She does not want it, nor does she have the truck to pull it.  Where I go from here is unknown at this time.  My disability does not pay much and don't know if I will be able to afford it with what I get, of course she left me the payment book.
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  Quote salda01 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 8:35pm
_popupControl(); that sucks.. I would think that she is 1/2 responsible for the payments if you were married.

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  Quote mwebber78 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 8:48pm
Bummer - so sorry to hear of your troubles. Try to settle everything in a ammicable manner and visit a lawyer with her for advice on proceedings. Friends of ours kept it VERY civil, shared the costs of a lawyer who just reviewed everything before the court date and it went VERY smoothly.
 
Again, sorry for your troubles.
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  Quote GeorgeG Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 8:54pm
Well I kinda threw her out!!  To keep it short, she was sleeping in the wrong bed.  It won't be ammicable!
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  Quote mwebber78 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 9:00pm
Sorry George. Well get yourself a lawyer anyways. You will need it then.
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  Quote fhenn Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 10:11pm
Think of it this way, she is a modern woman, you can not work any more think Alimony for you..  After all what is good for the Goose is good for the Gander. See a lawyer
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  Quote spinella Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 Oct 2009 at 10:27pm
sorry to here it. i hope things work out for you.
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  Quote lynlou14760 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Oct 2009 at 6:03pm
George, I'm truley sorry to hear about your problems.  I've been in the very position you find yourself in today, and the only thing I can say is a qualified, "things will come around."
 
I was lucky though, I found a good woman, married her, and am more financially successful, and emotionally secure than I ever was before.  Starting over sucks, but its the only way to a new life.
 
God bless, good luck.
 
 
 
 
 
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  Quote papa2 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 27 Oct 2009 at 8:14pm
Sorry to hear this George.  After reading this I immediately thought of the song 32:20, originally written by Robert Johnson (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gh5zTCdNH_0&feature=player_embedded)

Get thee to a good attourney, and harken to his/her advice.



Edited by papa2 - 27 Oct 2009 at 8:23pm
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  Quote RanCar Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 06 Nov 2009 at 2:37pm
Originally posted by GeorgeG

As of Saturday, after 8 years the DW and I have split.  Now I don't know if I will be able to keep the 5er or not.  She does not want it, nor does she have the truck to pull it.  Where I go from here is unknown at this time.  My disability does not pay much and don't know if I will be able to afford it with what I get, of course she left me the payment book.


You may consider selling your home or giving up your apartment and living in the 5er. Or selling the 5er and buying something smaller and cheaper; perhaps used.

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